chill out bud. that's not a pathetic joke at all. how do you know there wasn't a flag for the "cross check",or that the stick wasnt checked? You have no idea that the stick is illegal, and by the way - have you even stepped on a field recently? not a ref in the country would call that a "cross check" you need to grow up and quit playing the game like a 4th grader if you think it's pathetic that a ref didn't call that. try picking up a baseball bat instead or a lacrosse stick next spring.